专业八级903Word格式.docx
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演讲者观察到,人不管是性格内向或外向,都愿意回答别人的问题
first/former/previousjob)
这是一个例子,说明应该如何开始提问。
morning)
同上。
listen)
讲座中提到的第二项会话技能是学会在提问后留意听回答。
signsofinterest/attention/concentration/attentiveness)
这是如何听回答的例子。
tone(s))
easepeople'
sdiscomfort/nervousness/uneasiness/tension/anxiety)
这是第三项技能(学会在谈话中插入笑声的技巧)所能起到的作用。
conversation/communication/talk)
handshake)
这是关于男士如何相互道别的例子。
men/men'
s)
[听力原文]Questions-
Goodmorning,today'
slecturewillfocusonhowtomakepeoplefeelateaseinconversations.Iguessallofyousittingherecanrecallcertainpeoplewhojustseemtomakeyoufeelcomfortablewhenthey'
rearound.Youspendanhourwiththemandfeelasifyou'
veknownthemhalfyourlife.Thesepeoplewhohavethatcertainsomethingthatmakesusfeelcomfortablehavesomethingincommon.Andonceweknowwhatthatis,wecangoaboutgettingsomeofthatsomethingforourselves.
Howisitdone?
Herearesomeoftheskillsthatgoodtalkershave.Ifyoufollowtheskills,theywillhelpyouputpeopleattheirease,makethemfeelsecureandcomfortable,andturnacquaintancesintofriends.
Firstofall,goodtalkersaskquestions.Almostanyone,nomatterhowshy,willansweraquestion.Infact,accordingtomyobservation,veryshypersonsareoftenmorewillingtoanswerquestionsthanextroverts.Theyaremoreconcernedthatsomeonewillthinkthemimpoliteiftheydon'
trespondtothequestions.So,mostskillfulconversationalistsrecommendstartingwithaquestionthatispersonalbutnotharmful.Forexample,onceafamousAmericanTVpresentergotalongandfascinatinginterviewfromanotoriouslyprivatebillionairebyaskinghimabouthisfirstjob.Anotherexample,oneprominentwomanexecutiveconfessesthat"
atbusinesslunches,Ialwaysaskpeoplewhattheydidthatmorning.It'
sadullquestion,butitgetsthingsgoing."
Fromthereyoucanmoveontoothermatters--sometimestoreallypersonalquestions.Moreover,howyourrespondentanswerswillletyouknowhowfaryoucango.Afewsimplecatchwordslike"
Really?
"
"
Yes?
areclearinvitationstocontinuetalking.
Second,oncegoodtalkershaveaskedquestions,theylistenforanswers.Thispointseemsobvious,butitisn'
tinfact.Makingpeoplefeelcomfortableisn'
tsimplyamatterofmakingidleconversation.Yourquestionshaveapoint.You'
rereallyasking,"
Whatsortofpersonareyou?
Andtofindout,youhavetoreallylisten.
Thereareatleastthreecomponentsofreallistening.Foronething,reallisteningmeansnotchangingthesubject.Ifsomeonestickstoonetopic,youcanassumethatheorsheisreallyinterestedinit.Anothercomponentofreallisteningislisteningnotjusttowordsbuttotonesofvoice.IoncementionedD.H.Lawrencetoafriend.Tomyastonishment,shelaunchedintoanacademicdiscussionoftheimageryinLawrence'
sworks.Midwaythrough,Ilistenedtohervoice.Itwas,toputitmildly,unanimated,anditseemedobviousthattheimagerymonologuewasintendedsolelyformybenefit.AndIquicklychangedthesubject.Andlast,reallisteningmeansusingyoureyesaswellasyourears.Whenyourgazewanders,itmakespeoplethinkthey'
reboringyou,orwhattheyaresayingisnotinteresting.Ofcourse,youdon'
thavetostareorglareatthem;
simplylookingattentivewillmakemostpeoplethinkthatyouthinkthey'
refascinating.
Next,goodtalkersarenotafraidtolaugh.Ifyouthinkofallthepeopleyouknowwhomakeyoufeelcomfortable,youmaynoticethatallofthemlaughalot.Laughterisnotonlywarmingandfriendly,it'
salsoagoodwaytoeaseotherpeople'
sdiscomfort.IhaveafriendwhomIenjoywatchingatgatheringsofpeoplewhodonotknoweachotherwell.Thefirstfewminutesoftalkareabituneasyandhesitant,forthepeopleinvolveddonotyethaveasenseofeachother.Invariably,alightcommentorjokeismadeandmyfriend'
seasylaugherappearslikesunshineintheconversation.Thereisalwaysthenavisiblesofteningthattakesplace;
otherpeoplesmileandlooseninresponsetoherlaughter,andtheconversationgoesonwithmorewarmthandease.
Finally,goodtalkersareoneswhocementaparting,thatis,theyknowhowtomakeuseofpartingasawaytoleaveadeepimpressiononothers.Lastimpressionsarejustasimportantasfirstimpressionsindetermininghowanewacquaintancewillrememberyou.Peoplewhomakeothersreallyfeelcomfortabletakeadvantageofthatpartingmomentto"
closethedeal"
.Menhavehaditeasier;
theyhavedoneitwithasmileandagood,firmhandshake.Whataboutwomenthen?
Overthelastseveralyears,womenhavestartedtotakeoverthatcustomaswell,betweenthemselvesorwithmen.Ifyou'
resayinggood-bye,youmaywanttogivehimorherasecond,extrahandsqueeze.It'
sawaytosay,"
I'
vereallyenjoyedmeetingyou."
Butit'
snotalldonewithbodylanguage.Ifyou'
veenjoyedbeingwithsomeone,ifyouwanttoseethatpersonagain,don'
tkeepitasecret.Letpeopleknowhowyoufeel,andtheymaywalkawayfeelingasifthey'
veknownyouhalftheirlife.
OK,justtosumup,todaywe'
vetalkedaboutfourwaystomakepeoplefeelateaseinconversations.Theseskillsareimportantinkeepingconversationsgoingandinformingfriendshipslateron.Ofcourse,theseskillsarebynomeanstheonlyoneswecanuse;
thelistismuchlonger.Ihope,youwillusethesefourskillsanddiscovermoreonyourowninconversationswithotherpeople.
这是关于女士如何相互道别的例子。
四、SECTIONB(总题数:
五、Questions1to5arebasedonaconversation.Attheendoftheconversationyouwillbegiven10secondstoanswereachofthefollowingquestions.
Nowlistentotheconversation
(总题数:
5.00)
(分数:
A.fly-driveholiday.
B.car-trip.
C.two-cityholiday.
D.conductedtour.
√
(J=Jenny;
V=Victoria)
J:
I'
mlongingtohearaboutthistour,Victoria.Youmustbeterriblyexcited.
V:
Oh,Iam.I...I'
veneverbeentoAmericabefore,Jenny,soI'
mreallylookingforwardtoit.Ithoughtofgoingfly-drive.
Fly-drive?
Yes.Youknow,you...youcanarrangeforacartobewaitingforyouattheairportwhenyouarrive.Youbookeverythingthisendincludingtheplanetickets.
Soundssimpleenough.Areyougoingto,then?
Well,I'
mbitworriedaboutdrivingontheothersideoftheroadandhavingto,soIdecideditwouldbebettertogoonamoreorganizedholiday.
J.Whatdoyoumeanby"
organized"
?
V..Well,everythingisarrangedbyatouroperator,amoreorganizedtrip.
V..Well,everythingisarrangedbyatouroperator.Youknow,youaretakenaroundandshownwheretogoandwhattodo.Iwouldprobablymisshalfthesightotherwise.
Mm,whereareyougoinganyway?
Orlando.It'
sincentralFlorida.
SoundsOK.Areyougoingonyourown?
Yes,Idon'
tmindthat.Therewillbeotherpeopleonthetour.I'
msuretomakefriends.Youknow,Ilikemeetingnewpeople.Here,letmeshowyouthebrochure.
Itlooksprettypacked.Doyoureallyhavetimetodoallthesethings?
Oh,yes.It'
sallplanned.Let'
ssee.Dayone,wearriveinOrlando.Andafterwe'
vesettledinourhotel,wehavetheafternoonfree.!
guesswecouldhavealookaroundanddowhatwelike.Then,daytwo,wegotoDisneyWorld.
YoumeanMickeyMouseandallthat?
Yes,it'
sakindofgiganticfunfairwithalltheDisneycharactersandthereisalsotheEpcotCentre,uh,asortofcityofthefuturewithallthelatestdevelopments.I'
vealwayswantedtogothere,anythingIsawontelevision.Andthen,daythree,wegoseaworld.
Whateveristhat?
Well,thereareaquaticdisplaysandperformingdolphinsandevenawhale.
Oh,that'
squiteunusual.Let'
sseewhatyoudoondayfour.Oh,itseemstobefree.
Yes,that'
sright.AndthenonthenextdaywegototheKennedySpaceCentre.Thatshouldbeinteresting.
Iwonderhowmuchtheyletyousee.That'
swhereNASAis,isn'
tit?
Well,Ishouldn'
tthinkyou'
dbeabletoseethelatestspacecr0ft,butyoumightbeallowedtoglimpsesomeMissionControl,andperhapshowtheyreceivemessagefromsatellite.AnywayIbetyou'
llknowalotmoreaboutspacethanyouevenknowbefore.
Mm,Iquiteenvyyougoingthere.Somehow,Ifinditquitehardtobelievethatpeoplewillonedayliveoutinspace.
Oh,Idon'
t.I'
llgiveitatryifIhavethechance.Now,whatnext?
Oh,yes,daysix.CircusWorld.
CircusWorld.Thatsoundsfun.Ilovegoingtothecircus.
SodoI.Itstateshere,CircusWorld,see,takeparts,enjoy.Iwonderwhat"
takeparts"
involves?
You'
llsoonfindout.
Anddayseven,wecomehome.Justaswell,I'
llbebrokebythen.
Isupposeyou'
vebeensavingupforagesforthisholiday.
Well,Ididthinkofputtinginsomeextrahoursatwork,butthemoneywasn'
treallyworthitaftertax,anditwouldhavemeantIdidn'
tgethomeuntillate.DadofferedtolendmesomemoneybutIknowhereallyneedsithimself.Intheend,Iwenttoseemybankmanager.Hewasterriblynice,sohereIam,allbookedupandreadytogo.
本题的重点在于相关信息的辨别。
Victoria开始谈到她想乘飞机去度假(fly-driveholiday),但后来打消了这个念头,而改用organizedholiday的方式,organizedholiday就是conductedholiday。
A.seeaquaticdisplays.
B.visitalargefun
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