20 years old二十几的年时候.docx
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20yearsold二十几的年时候
QualityofLife
Adulthood
Self-Awareness
20s(age)
LifeLessons
Life
LifeAdvice
Whatcoulda20-year-olddotopotentiallyimprovetheirqualityoflifefurtherdowntheline?
Orevenimmediately.
Whataresomemajorpiecesofadvicethatyouwouldgivetoa20-year-old?
Whatlifelessonswouldyoupasson?
Whatbookswouldyoutellthemtoread?
Wherewouldyoutellthemtotravelto?
Howwouldyouhelpthemleadtheirlifetothemaximum,knowingthattheyhavetheirwholelifeaheadofthem?
Perhapsbeingdowntheline--whatwerethethingsthatyouwishedyouhaddonewhenyouwere20?
Orbestwaystomakethemostoutofyour20's?
Alsocheckthefollow-upquestion:
Whatcoulda30-year-olddotopotentiallyimprovetheirqualityoflifefurtherdowntheline?
AnswerWiki
Highlyupvotedanswersbelowmakethefollowingpoints:
Wewillstartwithafewoverarchingprinciplesandadviceandthenbreakdownintothefinerpointsofeach(stillsummarizedfromeverything).
At20,therearetwothingsyou'retryingtocriticallybalance,theshort-termversusthelong-term:
1.Thedecisionsyoumakeatthisstagewillimpacttherestofyourlife.Thisiseasytovastlyunderestimate:
don't.Considerthelong-termimpactofyourseriousdecisions.
2.Youhaveuniqueopportunitiesandfreedomsintheshort-termthatwillgrowmoredistantwithtime/age.Yourresponsibilitiestoexternalfactorsincreasetothepointthatyoucan'tbeasspontaneousandwild,sousethisasachancetohavetheseexperiences.
Timeisyourmostpreciousresource,andyoursisfleeting. Moneyisnosubstituteforyouth.Moneycanbeearned,given,orstored;nottime.
Envisionyourolderselflookingback,thinking"I'msogladI____"or"IwishIhaddone____"or"IwishIhadn't_____."Alwaystrytofillintheblankforthesecondtermandseekitout!
Theconceptofdiminishingtime+shorttermvslongtermleadstosomebigtake-aways:
∙Takebigrisks (you'reyoungandcanaffordtodoso,duetorelativelyfewcommitments,etc)
∙Travelasmuchaspossible (don'twaittillyou'reretired,youmayneverlivethatlong)
∙Alwaysre-investinyourself:
learn,developnewskills,keepgettingeducated
∙Don'tbeashamedtoseekprofessionalhelpwhenlife'sgotyoudown.
∙Your20saretheabsolutebesttimetodothatthingyou'vealwaysdreamedof.Traveltheworld,act,sing,designavideogame,makeart,write,compose,paint,startabusiness,whatever:
justdoit!
Ifyoudon'tdoitnow,youmayneverfulfillthatdream.
Allthatbeingsaid,thesearethemaincomponentsofvital20-somethingknowledge:
∙Habits
∙Socialization
∙DreamsandGoals
∙Money
∙Mind
Let'sdrillintothese!
Atthisearlystage, developinggoodhabits (and avoidingorstoppingbadones)isahugepartofoveralllifesuccessandhappiness.
∙Make exerciseandpropernutrition akeypartofyourdaily/weeklylife
∙Learntocook(sinceyoueateverydayyourentirelife)
∙Floss asoftenaspossible
∙Drinklotsof water
∙Take vitamins orminerals(ifdeemedunhealthy)
∙Managesunexposure properly(alittlebitisnecessary,alotiscarcinogenic).
∙Ifyousmoke,quit.(DothisASAP,it'sreallyhardtoquitlater.)
∙Don'tdrinkyourselftosleepeverynight.
∙Practicesafesex (useprotection).
∙Finishthingsyoustart.
∙Keepinmind:
Buildgoodhabitsearlyinyourlifesoit'seasytomaintainlater.
Masteryoursocialdimension(dating/relationships/friendships):
∙Understandyouremotionsandlearntolikeyourself(butnottoafault)
∙Laughoften.
∙Dateoften:
understandwhatyouwantANDwhatapotentiallifemateshouldideallybetodealwithyou
∙Don'tbeafraidofmarriageorlong-termrelationships:
peoplehavebeenintheseformillenniaforareason.
∙Alwaytryto befriendly andoptimistic(smile!
)
∙Alwaystryto helpothers.(Volunteeringisagreathumanendeavor.)
∙Don'tburndownbridges (grudgesachieveverylittle)
∙Edityourfriends:
avoidpeople"goingthewrongway"withdrugs,excessivedrinking,oddcults,extremepolitics,laziness,irresponsibility,negativityandlackofmotivation/ambition.Youdon'twantthesepeoplearound.Also:
seekoutuseful,active,interestingpeopleandbuildthoserelationshipsinstead.
∙Breakthrough"ageapartheid:
" Befriendswiththoseolderthanyou(optimallysome5yearsolderandsome10yearsolder)soyouhavepropermentors.
∙Hustleisbetterthanpassivity (butnottoanextreme,don'tviolatethe"friendlyprinciples"listedabove.
∙Don'tmakefriendspurelyforself-gain,but alwayskeepinmindwhocanbeagoodpartner foranyfutureventure.
∙Learnasecondorthirdlanguage tomakemorefriends(aroundtheworld)!
See'expandingmentalskillsets'subsectionbelow.
Beabletofulfillyourdreams:
PART1:
Layoutyourdreamsandgoals(optimism)
∙Don'tliveyourlifeforanyoneelse. DowhatYOUwanttodo,notparentsorsignificantothers.
∙BetruetoYOURindividualgoals anddreams.
∙Beopen-mindedaboutyourgoals anddreams.Theywillevolveovertime.
∙Periodsof uncertaintyand/orsetbacksareguaranteed.Acceptthemandlearnfromthem!
PART2:
Worktowardyourdreamsandgoals(realism)
∙Getcredentialed:
universitydegrees,vocations,tradeskillsandcrafts,certifications,licenses,etc.Noharminrackingtheseup.Minimalchanceofregret
∙Getexperienced:
teachortutor,evenforalittlebit.Travelcountstoo!
∙Getsmart:
tryandgetcredentialed/recognizedforhobbiesoranyotherwayyouspendyourtime.
∙Goforadvanceddegreesonlyinsubjectsyou'repassionateabout.
∙Bepatient:
greatstories,companies,research,structures,etctakeyearstobuild.
Mastermoney,financesandinvesting:
∙Startlearninghowto makemoneyworkforyou (nottheotherwayaround)early.
∙Getacoreunderstandingof personalfinance (youdon'tneedtobeapro,justthe101introcourse-worth)
∙Stayoutofdebt.
∙StartsavingNOW.
∙Livewithinyourmeans.
∙Moneyisnotthemostimportantthingintheworld,but financialsecuritywillgiveyouachoice,andchoice is important.
Maximizeyourmind(expandmentalskill-sets):
∙Learntothinkusingmultiplementalmodels:
math,physics,biology,psychology,etc...andworkuptothepointwherethey'redeployedautomatically.Todothis,seethenextbulletpoint.
∙Read asmuchasyoucanpossiblywithstand(thiswillhelpwiththeabove).
∙Write asoftenasyoucan.Ithelpsorganizeyourthoughtsandmakesyouabettercommunicator(onpaperatleast).
∙Masterattentionandfocus:
thesearelifelongtoolsthatwillleadtogreaterself-improvement.
∙Learntobedisciplinedandworkwithdeadlines (yes,your20sareatimetobefreeandspontaneous,butremembertobalanceshortvslongterm).
∙Learnatleasttwolanguages (besidesyournativelanguage).Learnonelanguageforbusiness.Learnanothertoexpandyoursociallife.
∙Makesureyouknowhowto touch-type.
∙Learnto uselibraryresearchandwebsearch toolstoyouradvantage.
∙Learnto thinklogicallyandcritically.
100+Answers
JoshRachford, Actor
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1.Startsavingmoney. Putitinanaccountthatwillgarnercompoundinterestorinvestinan IndexFund (thisadviceisper WarrenBuffett).
2.Develophealthyhabits. We'retalkingflossing,drinkingwater,takingavitamindaily.
3.Similarly:
stopbadhabits. Ifyousmoke,quit.Don'tbeinthehabitofdrinkingyourselftosleep.Badhabitsarehardtobreakandthelongeryoukeepabadhabittheworseitisforyou.
4.Takebigrisks. Whenyouareyounger,youcanaffordtobelessriskaversethanwhenyou'reolder.Forexample,launchingastart-upwhenyouare20hasfarfewerpossiblenegativeconsequencesthanlaunchingonewhenyouare40andhavechildrentofeed.
5.Travel.Asthedemandsofyourcareerincreaseandyoustarthavingcommitments(relationships,children,etc.),findingtimeandmoneytotravelisharder.It'sbettertotravelonthecheapwhenyouareyoungthantowaituntilyouareretired.
6.Investinyourself. Learning,developingskills,andgettinganeducationwillpaydividendstoyoulater.
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Iam25.AndthreeyearsagoIformedthisguidingprincipleformydailylife,inadditionto,andinordertofuelasustainableeffortformylong-termgoals:
Heart
Nurtureyourrelationships.Family,friends,significantother,colleagues,acquaintances.Maketimeforahealthysociallife.Volunteer.Give.Facebookmoderately.Makenewfriends.Smileatthecashier,barista,librarian,janitor:
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Mind
Staycreative.Don'tallowanysituationtokeepyouinarut.Developyourskillsandseekoutnewones,too.And,asalreadymentioned,youshouldbetheonetobenefitfromyourwork(per Cyril).Ifyou'reacoder,learnsomethingthatrequiresmanualdexterity.Ifyouhavetwoleftfeet,dancewiththem!
Quoramoderately.Seeklike-mindedpeers.Workonyourweaknessesabitjusttogainperspective,butplayupyourstrengths.
Body
Eathealthy.Exerciseeveryday.Playsports.Sleepwell. Laugh. Heartily. Learntocook.Getoffthecompute
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